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Making a relationship spicy/interesting involves introducing excitement, novelty, and passion.

While every relationship is different, there are several general strategies to consider.

Whoever said sex couldn't be fun and passionate at the same time? When it comes to intimacy, adding humor to the equation can add an entirely new dimension to your experience. Laughter has the ability to enhance communication, break down barriers, and create a light-hearted atmosphere.

BEDTIME STORIES WITH A TWIST

Bed time stories aren't just for children!! Incorporate storytelling into your intimate moments for an added dose of humor. Create fictional scenarios, develop out laddish narratives, remix a song to capture the moment or even elaborate role-playing scenarios that get you both laughing. This allows you to tap into your creative side and create a sense of shared adventure.

DRESSING UP FOR PLAY

Role-playing can be a fantastic way to add excitement to your sexual encounters. Dressing up in costumes or outfits that tickle your funny bone can ignite humor while heightening anticipation. Whether it's channeling your favorite movie characters or trying on the costume from Halloween, the goal is to let your imagination run wild, do something out of the norm, and embrace a fun loving moment. Or if you are accustom to always wearing clothes, DON'T!!! Enter the room in your birthday suit singing a favorite song. Remember laughter is contagious, and when both partners are having a good time, the pleasure becomes more intense.

ELEMENT OF SURPRISE

Surprises are a powerful tool? Consider introducing unexpected elements that catch your partner off guard in a positive way. It could be initiating a spontaneous massage, or lightly gliding a feather across the body or have a tickle fight. What matters is showing your partner your willingness to step put of your comfort zone for their amusement.

When it comes to sex, remember that laughter and pleasure can work together. You strengthen the emotional bond with your partner and create unforgettable memories to recapture at a later time.